Unanswered QUESTION

Unanswered huh?
Many things are unanswered in our life. Many things don't have any reasons still they occur in our life. 
 
Your boss demoted you,your loved ones left  without giving any reasons, you met with an accident,you were cheated.
See there,
They are the unanswered questions.

They have a positive and a negative side too.
 
You meet someone and they become an integral part of your life and you keep on thinking how you were able to meet them at the first place.
You do something small but which results into a huge difference in the end.
See there,
these are positive sides.
 But hey, they are also answered questions in the sense that why you met the person or did things at the first place.
Usually I have seen people suffering with pain when their loved ones leave them without giving any reason and people keep on asking them the unanswered questions. 
 
At the end of the day,we just try to connect the dots of our life in a way that we would make it beautiful to live .

In this process, we assume the answers.They might be right or wrong but at least they help us to move on and get going with life.
We constantly search those unanswered questions in our life.
If you even get your answers,the questions might get flipped.
Let me tell you one thing.
The image will only be clear when we will be on our death bed . Suddenly everything will start to make sense.
Every questions will get their perfect answer.
So for now chill,take a deep breath.
If your life is not giving you answers now just assume them and keep moving.
You never know you might get lucky getting an answer in the process.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BLOG!

19/09/2013

 Yaa this date, how can I forget this date. Something that changed my life forever.

 A year ago, I started blogging. But more important thing is that I started writing. Everything changed in my from that day and you guys very well know that.

 People see me now and say Milan you have changed. I know I have changed, but I say change is necessary for survival. 

Aditya mankad, the person who gave me the idea to blog for the first time and I am proud to be friend with such an avid blogger.

 A whole year past and looking back, I do find some cherishing moments and some worse moments. I have done mistakes, I have learned. In those all moments, the blog was always with me. the name some hidden treasures was titled as I believe we all have some memories that we want to treasure for lifetime and I try to put these words into life.

 Brinda tailor, hell yeah I still remembered how for the first time you sent me your blog link and I too responded it with my blog link. Our first convo happened due to my blog only and the rest is history. Now we have total of four books co-authored and our duo will rock in future too.

 Ashish gamit, Oh this man, I know if nothing works in my life, I can always go to him. It’s not like he gives the solution or something like that, but he talks so out of the box that I find a new problem to deal with.

 People say you need at least four pillars to stand, I say it’s not the number of pillars, it’s that how strong are the pillar and I am blessed with three pillars, which I believe that they will always hold me up whenever I will fall.

 Aditya mankad-hope you really find the girl whom you can share your mood swings and gets out from the friend zone.

 Brinda tailor-I want to see you as a bestselling writer with an engineering degree with a certificate in photography.

 Ashish gamit-Hope you get a wifi modem with a 100mbps speed for lifetime. You can find their blogs at 

Brinda-brindatailor.wordpress.com

 Aditya-http://the-cheesy-engineer.blogspot.in/

 Ashish-Well; you all need to wait till next birth.

 At last, Happy birthday blog .

LOVE BYTES

We are made by God but still, we are
unique in our own differences, beliefs
and religion.

For instance, love. We have different
beliefs or understanding of this four-
letter word.

For some, it is a magical feeling one
experiences when seeing someone he/she
adores to the point wherein she will say
that she feels butterflies in her stomach.

Whenever that person is near you, you
get queasy and tend to stutter on your
words. They say its just hormones, which
is true. But it's hard to believe that
what causes you to feel this emotion is a
simple word --- Love.

Love is seeing a person perfectly despite
his/her imperfections. Love is so
powerful that it can bring even the gods
to their knees. Love is a sensational and
once in a lifetime feeling. The previous
sentences are just about a few of my
knowledge about love.

Just imagine a whole book coming out of love!

Yes LOVE BYTES , is an Anthology, A Tale
of 20 Love Stories, Penned by
Young Authors from all Over the
country. Envisioned by CrazZy
Ventures.

Soon to hit the markets!

A few lines that I would like to quote from it-
Our love was fire. Maybe that was the problem.
Because fire dies out.
Love Bytes♥

This book is going to ne edited by
       -Shivam mishra
      - Shradha Nanchahil

For info please login to their
Website -http://lovebytes.co.in/

DON'T CHANGE ! YOU ARE UNIQUE.

In our whole life, we are constantly looking outside of ourselves for Love, approval and to fit in. This happens first as a child – when we adapt to meet our parents needs so that we can get Love.

Then, as we get older, it could be a group of friends, or adapt to how we think our romantic partner thinks we should be – or the opposite – we rebel against how anyone thinks we should be and we stand out by not fitting in.

No matter how we slice it, adapting ourselves to fitting in or being a rebel and standing out – all of these behaviors stem from our thoughts about what other people think. And living our lives from the perspective of what other people think creates massive pain in our lives. Because when we act based on what other people think, we are acting from the place of a deficit, that is – “I’m not enough, so I am going to change myself to be enough.”

DO WE LIVE JUST FOR THE SAKE OF PLEASING SOMEONE ?

And this core thought has caused A LOT of pain in my life. And this core thought has caused a lot of pain in general.

The journey is that through feeling all of this pain, we come back to ourselves, and we stop identifying with what other people think we should be, or we stop rebelling against other people – and instead tune within and listen to whom we really are – at a heart and soul level.

Each and every one of us – and that includes – YOU – is a unique soul. We have a unique gift. We are great at something. Life comes into balance and our fullest expression begins to be realized when we align with our true nature rather than being a part of the herd or rebelling against the herd.

The journey is within. When we listen to and act from that place – we are trendsetters – we are unique – we are special – and ain’t no one else like us is made.

And what’s cool is when we start to belong to ourselves and express ourselves – we put out a different frequency and, as a result, we start attracting and meeting people who are on that new wave length. And what’s so cool is in doing so, we no longer need to chase people. When we belong to ourselves, we find who else we belong to.

The joy of living a Self -Approved life is revealed when we begin to allow ourselves to be ourselves – we accept ourselves as we are – we accept ourselves as perfectly imperfect and the inner conflict begins to die down. And our true nature emerges and The Uni-verse supports us in miraculous ways.

How can you start to live a Self Approved life today? What are you going to do differently

Short tales with tequila shots!

 She said to soothe her with his words.
He replied he will talk till his words bleed :)

He asked her if she likes his description. She said she loved them.
Again he asked if she love him.
Alas!
She replied she liked him.

She said she sings,when he asked her about her hobbies.
She again said she is not professional.
"I am bored with professionalism"
He replied making it sound so good.

He complimented her saying her cougar.
She elegantly replied "I am not cougar,I am jaguar".

"How you write so well?"
Everyone asked her including him in the crowd.
She looked towards him and said "I write because you exist ".

He loved her with all his heart.
She ignored him like he never existed. 

He played with her hairs,completely unaware of that she is playing with his emotions.

She said she is devil and will break his heart.

He replied holding her hands,
"It would be a privilege to be broken by you".

She said she is making her finger wet in the drizzle.
He replied
"Even the raindrops got its worth falling on her fingers.
It seemed to formed in diamonds after falling on her hands:)".

" My heart has been broken into uncountable pieces and been broken and joined the same number of times".
She said in a sad tone.
"He will join them in exact shape she deserves by the love chords of him".
He replied soothing her.

If it could be controlled, it would never be called the 'heart'.
Thats why god gifted some brains, for us to manipulate our lives. There shall be times once in a blue moon, when both would call the night ..night!
He huged her tightly.

They met each other after one year of their break up in a pub.
She loved him and he even more.
Then he handed her the glass and said
"Let's get drunk and tell each other how we really feel".

Anonymous: SHE

She was effortlessly beautiful. Her long blonde hair waved and caressed her body in a way that made me envy hair in a way I never have before. Carrying two carton characters,she had been the queen for them. I found myself questioning everything else I thought about the ideas of love and beauty. I imagined a idealistic scenario where she would be mine and I would be contempt and in complete ecstasy as I held her close to me with a typical sunset in the background. She is beautiful, with shyness adding to her beauty. She had a determined expression on her face. She had deep, chocolate colored eyes and the waves of her luscious brown hair makes the world get puzzled. She is a very pretty girl- and I knew that at first sight that she is well-behaved in nature. Her face is young without one blemish to mar it’s perfectly pale complexion. She is not tall nor short, but somewhere in between. Her shoulders were broad and she held her noble head high with the air of confidence. Her hair was thick with satin jet- black curls that blew softly in the morning breaze, Her Eyebrow are soft, quizzical, and serene with purity and wisdom.And then her eyes- they were deep as a great body of water- indeed- and just as blue. Her smile-killed many,difficult to carve in stone. The most beautiful curve on her body was her smile. You love her,she will make you her king;Well try dumping her she will make you regret for your existence. She is the smile everyone else carries when she is around. Once she looses her smile,even the sun looses its shine seeing her. She is queen of her father's kingdom.she just rules it,but Once she give her heart to you,no matter what she won't give up on you. She does everything  flawlessly with her charming nature. Indeed she is,the greatest work of god. P.S - EVERY GIRL OUT THERE ,TELL ME IF I  JUSTIFIED YOUR BEAUTY :) SHARE IT IF YOU LIKED ;)

Social issues: Voices Crumpled

Social issue??

What it is exactly?

A social issue (also called a social problem or a social situation) is an issue that relates to society's perception of a person's personal life. Different cultures have different perceptions and what may be "normal" behavior in one society may be a significant social issue in another society. We say we are living in the 21st century now.

Really?

Ask yourself. 

We have gathered the whole world in a small place, but still if a girl wear shorts, she needs to think twice or maybe thrice before going out. Why a girl is uncomfortable in a queue of boys? Why a 12 year old boy is working at tea stall?

Is it his fault that he is poor?

Sad, isn’t it?

It’s just a start though.

India got its freedom 67 years ago. But are we really free? What kind of freedom have we really achieved? If we are free, then why a woman has to think again before working late at night? Why cases like rape, eve- teasing, ragging, child marriage etc. are still pending? Why are the victimizers not penalized? Hell yeah, why you will be bothered? You are living comfortably. She was not you sister; the girl who died because of acid attack on her face was no one to you. But who knows someday it might be your loved ones. I hope now it rang a bell. The animals are still out there, finding their new victims.

The above mentioned issues are just some highlighted things that are still existing. There are more issues to be taken care off. Some of the brutalities are- 

• Abortion
• Suicide
•  Homosexuality
•  Poverty
• Women's Rights
•  Homelessness
•  Racial profiling
•  Single Parenting
•  Child Labor.

You must have heard a lot of times about all this, but still the things are the same because we tend to be ignorant.

"Our lives begin to end the day when we become silent about the things that matter."

- Martin Luther king Jr.

A small step is taken towards the improvement of the society by Gargi publishers.

A venture named "crumpled voices" an anthology of such stories related to social issues.

Let us raise our voice supporting them. I am a part of it, now it’s your turn.

You can submit your entry as per the instructions on the poster –

Book your copies as fast as possible – 

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Life :Bed of thorns with roses in the middle.

Sometimes I do feel life is full of thorns
It just shows you why it's called life.

Why great people has always quoted about life that "Its unpredictable".
At one moment you feel like you are the king,and next moment it nails you down to nothing with just ashes remaining. 
The person you love the most,don't love you back;The thing you want the most, you won't have it. Some times the best of friends backstabs you for their profit. That's harsh life . Isn't it??
You always remain at you own.Even your shadow leaves you in the deadly darkness. You can't trust anybody but yourself.
You are lucky enough if you have somebody whom you blindly trust.
Never trust anyone untill they do something for you that you never expected,but after trusting don't blame for even once,if they back stab you . Remember they did something for you that never expected at first.
But don't repeat that again.
Sometimes worst things happen at the most unexpected time or should I say most of the times .
You just go blank what to answer when someone ask you,"what's going on in your life?".


You don't have a clue about your life that in which direction its moving. Just tighten your seat belt and sit tight,hold on to life and let your destination play its role.

BREAK DOWN

Ya,a break down.when in this fake world,if the only  reason to live don't exist.You break down.
A person breaks down for many sort of things.Most of the times it breaks you  from inside.
Heart breaks are the most probable reason for break downs.
You failed in exams,you don't do good in sports.
You don't fullfill your parents expectations(ya that hurts a lot . isn't it?)
We used to get  attach with somebody and suddenly he/she leaves into parts that no one can collect and fix the same way.
At  times, you feel so bad that even death look nicer in comparison to what you go through.
But hey,collecting yourself and fighting again that's what we call life . That's the ride of life and everyone one had travel from that.So just enjoy the roller coaster with a smile.Never cry for same thing  again.If you have the power to change your things than do it & if not improve the things what you have left with after the stroam has past . Don't give the power to someone to  take your benifit while you yourself don't know what you want.There is a good and a bad thing about time i.e it will change.
Enjoy whatever comes.
Happy reading.

MIXED EMOTIONS

Mixed emotions.
Emotions are the inseparable part of human life,and that too mixed emotions has an priceless value.
I am talking about that one single moment when two emotions fill your face with at a single time.
You can't always get that moment in your life.
It's a time when your all controlling powers go in vain to stop that second emotion.
The best and invaluable moment when your tears and smile come to your face at a single time. The single curve (Smile) in your face and the  tears droplet from your eyes mix together and form the best expression ever.It another thing that it needs a real heart to understand that moment.
Its not possible for everybody.
You smile because that thing happened in your life and cry because it won't happen again.
Ya that's the hard fact of life.
From my views you need a very very special person in your life to have that moments.
Believe me,going through it needs a hell lot of guts.
My mom used to do the same thing when she gets angry ,but I make her smile doing something at the sometime and her angers and turn to smile.i guess every mom do that or I should say we try to make her smile.
Emotions are god gifted to humans.
But it depend on us how we use them.It can make life worth living, if someone understands them or a worst nightmare if you are left alone with your emotions.
So a request to all the people reading this.
" Don't play with emotions".